Hmm...when it comes to doing something I must say I lost my sanguine strain from my blood. I immediately became melancholic person. I need to have everything well laid in front of me before deciding on anything.
Crazy?Fussy? Nah! Merely organising my lists so I don't missed out on important stuff.
Documents & Formalities
Mr.S Requirements:
Register and attend the pre-marriage course at Masjid At-Taqwa, TTDI
Obtained the certificate from Masjid At-Taqwa's office
Endorsed copy of Mr.S passport [front copy and latest entry stamps]
Endorsed copy of IC/passport of 2 witnesses
Celibacy letter from embassy [need to be endorsed at Wisma Putra]
1 passport photograph
Confirmation and signature for surat pemastautin --can be obtained from resident chiefs, village heads, mosque, JKKK of housing area
Marriage application form + 1 photocopy
HIV test
Mrs.S Requirements:
Obtained the certificate from Masjid At-Taqwa's office
Completed marriage application form from Mr.S
Marriage application form + 1 photocopy
Single status letter --can be obtained from employer as well
Copy of mom&dad's marriage certificate [for eldest daughter only]
Copy of IC [Mrs.S and daddy's]
HIV test
Gifts & Hantaran
Sirih Junjung --all done by WP
Mahar /Mas kahwin
Engagement rings & wedding band
Handbag and a pair of shoes
Perfume [D&G Rose The One] / Make Ups / Skin care products
Iphone 4
Clothes & Materials
Thornton's chocolates
From Mrs.S:
Sirih Junjung --up to Granmama
Wedding band with ring placement
Al-Quran in black velvet box with gold stitchings --bought in Mecca
Sajadah and rosary --also bought in Mecca
Tie, wallet and cufflinks
Perfume [Dolce & Gabbana] and skin care products
Diana F+ Lomo Camera ---[thank you LOVE]
CBTL coffee machine & displays
Jala emas & buah tanjong
Solemnization: 09/10/11 in the AM
KBR Reception: 09/10/11 in the PM
MU Reception: 11/11/11
Solemnization: Masjid Telipot, Kota Bharu, Kelantan
After Solemnization Reception: Granmama's house
KBR Reception: Grand Ballroom, Renaissance Hotel, Kota Bharu, Kelantan
MU Reception: Mr.S parent's house
Solemnization: Daddy as JuruNikah
Pre/Post Wedding Photo Shoot: Hindi Saree and Kurta
Solemnization: [Off-White] Solstiss Lace with tint of silver and Satin for Mr.S --tailored by Siti Nor Boutique
KBR Reception: [Gold & Full-Malay Traditional] A set of songket --tailored by Ratu Brides House
MU Reception: [Taupe/Champagne] Contemporary dress by Nik Erwan Roseli and a black tuxedo for Mr.S
From Mr.S:
Sirih Junjung --all done by WP
Mahar /Mas kahwin
Engagement rings & wedding band
Handbag and a pair of shoes
Perfume [D&G Rose The One] / Make Ups / Skin care products
Iphone 4
Clothes & Materials
Thornton's chocolates
From Mrs.S:
Sirih Junjung --up to Granmama
Wedding band with ring placement
Al-Quran in black velvet box with gold stitchings --bought in Mecca
Sajadah and rosary --also bought in Mecca
Tie, wallet and cufflinks
Perfume [Dolce & Gabbana] and skin care products
Diana F+ Lomo Camera ---[thank you LOVE]
CBTL coffee machine & displays
Jala emas & buah tanjong
12 or More Months Before
Dates:
Solemnization: 09/10/11 in the AM
KBR Reception: 09/10/11 in the PM
MU Reception: 11/11/11
Venues:
Solemnization: Masjid Telipot, Kota Bharu, Kelantan
After Solemnization Reception: Granmama's house
KBR Reception: Grand Ballroom, Renaissance Hotel, Kota Bharu, Kelantan
MU Reception: Mr.S parent's house
Officiant:
Solemnization: Daddy as JuruNikah
Themes:
Pre/Post Wedding Photo Shoot: Hindi Saree and Kurta
Solemnization: [Off-White] Solstiss Lace with tint of silver and Satin for Mr.S --tailored by Siti Nor Boutique
KBR Reception: [Gold & Full-Malay Traditional] A set of songket --tailored by Ratu Brides House
MU Reception: [Taupe/Champagne] Contemporary dress by Nik Erwan Roseli and a black tuxedo for Mr.S
The People:
Maid of Honor: Zoe Zainal Azman
Best Man:Elsa'ad Ramjaun Ashraf Cadersa
Bridesmaid: Aishah Ishak & Azhani Ishak
Flower Girls:Aliya Mokhtar & Amira Mokhtar replaced by Dina & Syasya
Emcees: Emmy Hermina Nathasia &Azizi Ramdan Tariiq Dusmohamud
Solemnization: Fresh flowers from Ratu Brides House/Aunty Widad [Official Wedding Planner]
KBR Reception: Sponsored by Ratu Brides House and our OWP
MU Reception: Anything that can be grabbed from florists --possibly lilies, orchids, carnations or roses
Mommy/Daddy/Granmama/Brothers
Bridesmaid --in yellow beaded chiffon
Maid of Honor --aqua bluish chiffon and songket
Best Man --aqua bluish satin/off white beigy satin
Gold and glittery dust --75 pieces
Gold egg-shaped cage --25 pieces
VIPs: Hand-blown crystal champagne glass with potpourri
Commoners: Kitchen designer's souffle cup with teas wrapped in PVC box and tagged with personalised gift tags
9 tiers dummy cake + cupcakes for each guest on the table from Renaissance Hotel, Kota Bharu, Kelantan
Yellow glutinous rice cake [Pulut Semangat]
Gamelan [Full Set] from Cikgu Ghani, Kota Bharu --entrance and exit
Wedding songs compiled by Mr.S & Mrs.S --to accompany slides and speeches
Mr.S and Mrs.S entrance --daddy's car
Flight for 09/10/11 bought
Flight for Mauritius 26/11/11 - 09/12/11 ---waiting confirmation
Solemnization: Pillows from Ratu Brides House
KBR Reception: Renaissance Hotel and Dais, Walkway + VIP tables by Ratu Brides House
MU Reception: Have yet to be confirmed
Solemnization: Sponsored by OWP & Ratu Brides House
KBR Reception: Aunty Widad, our OWP & Ratu Brides House
MU Reception: Have yet to be confirmed
Save The Date Postcard designed by Mrs. S: Posted on informal announcement on Facebook
Formal Invitation Cards: Mommy & daddy to decide --Last update already in printing
Solemnization: Families from both Mr.S and Mrs.S
Families, kith & kins from Mr.S and Mrs.S --Awaiting lists from Makcik Ani for Mrs.S
Friends, classmates and colleagues of mommy & daddy --Awaiting the lists from mommy & daddy
Mrs.S old family friends --Awaiting lists from Granmama
Friends from both Mr.S and Mrs.S
Hand blown crystal champagne glass --30 pieces bought from Robinson on 60% sales
Souffle cup from Maxwell & William Designer Kitchenware --500 pieces
Clear PVC boxes with hard board base
Gold and fuchsia satin ribbons
Logo for gift tags and wishing cards --by In2Creative & Pixelpensoul
Gift tags and wishing cards printing --Mangosteenskin handmade rubberstamp [should get it next week]
Green tea from LTC --750 pieces
Chocolates from Ferrero RondNoir --750 pieces
Engagement ring: White gold with 0.30 carat diamond
Wedding band: Platinum plain band from Diamond & Platinum
Solemnization: White lace or peep toe --NO strappy or stiletto to avoid mess to get in and out of mosque
Mr.S : Solemnization, KBR & MU Reception --black leather shoe
Mrs.S: KBR Reception by Ratu Brides House and MU Reception by Nik Erwan Roseli
Full set manicure and pedicure plus foot spa --for both Mr.S and Mrs.S
Botanical Fusion full body massage + full body scrub --for Mrs.S
Solemnization: Head gear wrap-around with lightly beaded chiffon on top
KBR Reception: Mr.S with tengkolok while Mrs.S will do buns with cucuk sanggul and jasmine
MU Reception: Mr.S make sure have haircut while Mrs. S half-tie fly away hair with flowers
Collect, compile and finalise guest lists
Send invitation cards --[writing the addresses now!]
Finalise menu from Renaissance Hotel caterers
Confirm florists and decorations --[OWP to coordinate and finalise]
Confirm henna --[deposit paid to Cama Henna Couture, balance MYR190 after event]
Confirm photography [Full Payment to Userun Photography, Balance MYR 600? to FMelot Photography]
Confirm videographer
Confirm accommodations for in-laws and close friends
Confirm entertainment --Gamelan set --[GranMama to get done]
Choose song lists
Solemnization: Check with Siti Nor Boutique
KBR Reception: Check with Ratu Brides House ---waiting to pick up the attires
MU Reception: Mr.S to check with his bestie for a tuxedo and Mrs.S to do final fitting with Nik Erwan Roseli
Pre-Wedding: FMelot Photography --[Location: Maple, Sentul West (at home only)]
Solemnization: FMelot Photography & Userun Photography
Slides and Video: FMelot Photography
Videography: En. Saidina
Reception KBR: Userun Photography
Post-Wedding KBR: Userun Photography
Reception MUR: To Be Confirmed
Follow up with guests RSVP
Arrange and finalise seating plans
Confirm table numbers with Renaissance Hotel caterers
Rehearsal
Best Man:
Bridesmaid: Aishah Ishak & Azhani Ishak
Flower Girls:
Emcees: Emmy Hermina Nathasia &
9-12 Months Before
Florist:
Solemnization: Fresh flowers from Ratu Brides House/Aunty Widad [Official Wedding Planner]
KBR Reception: Sponsored by Ratu Brides House and our OWP
MU Reception: Anything that can be grabbed from florists --possibly lilies, orchids, carnations or roses
Attires:
Mommy/Daddy/Granmama/Brothers
Bridesmaid --in yellow beaded chiffon
Maid of Honor --aqua bluish chiffon and songket
Best Man --aqua bluish satin/off white beigy satin
Bunga Telur:
Gold and glittery dust --75 pieces
Gold egg-shaped cage --25 pieces
Wedding Favors:
VIPs: Hand-blown crystal champagne glass with potpourri
Commoners: Kitchen designer's souffle cup with teas wrapped in PVC box and tagged with personalised gift tags
Cakes:
9 tiers dummy cake + cupcakes for each guest on the table from Renaissance Hotel, Kota Bharu, Kelantan
Yellow glutinous rice cake [Pulut Semangat]
Entertainment:
Gamelan [Full Set] from Cikgu Ghani, Kota Bharu --entrance and exit
Wedding songs compiled by Mr.S & Mrs.S --to accompany slides and speeches
6-9 Months Before
Transportation:
Mr.S and Mrs.S entrance --daddy's car
Flight for 09/10/11 bought
Flight for Mauritius 26/11/11 - 09/12/11 ---waiting confirmation
Decorations:
Solemnization: Pillows from Ratu Brides House
KBR Reception: Renaissance Hotel and Dais, Walkway + VIP tables by Ratu Brides House
MU Reception: Have yet to be confirmed
Official MUA:
Solemnization: Sponsored by OWP & Ratu Brides House
KBR Reception: Aunty Widad, our OWP & Ratu Brides House
MU Reception: Have yet to be confirmed
Invitations:
Save The Date Postcard designed by Mrs. S: Posted on informal announcement on Facebook
Formal Invitation Cards: Mommy & daddy to decide --Last update already in printing
Guest Lists:
Solemnization: Families from both Mr.S and Mrs.S
Families, kith & kins from Mr.S and Mrs.S --Awaiting lists from Makcik Ani for Mrs.S
Friends, classmates and colleagues of mommy & daddy --Awaiting the lists from mommy & daddy
Mrs.S old family friends --Awaiting lists from Granmama
Friends from both Mr.S and Mrs.S
Stationaries:
Hand blown crystal champagne glass --30 pieces bought from Robinson on 60% sales
Souffle cup from Maxwell & William Designer Kitchenware --500 pieces
Clear PVC boxes with hard board base
Gold and fuchsia satin ribbons
Logo for gift tags and wishing cards --by In2Creative & Pixelpensoul
Gift tags and wishing cards printing --Mangosteenskin handmade rubberstamp [should get it next week]
Green tea from LTC --750 pieces
Chocolates from Ferrero RondNoir --750 pieces
3-6 Months Before
Rings:
Engagement ring: White gold with 0.30 carat diamond
Wedding band: Platinum plain band from Diamond & Platinum
Espadrille:
Solemnization: White lace or peep toe --NO strappy or stiletto to avoid mess to get in and out of mosque
Mr.S : Solemnization, KBR & MU Reception --black leather shoe
Mrs.S: KBR Reception by Ratu Brides House and MU Reception by Nik Erwan Roseli
Spa Retreat:
Full set manicure and pedicure plus foot spa --for both Mr.S and Mrs.S
Botanical Fusion full body massage + full body scrub --for Mrs.S
2 Months Before
Hair Styling:
Solemnization: Head gear wrap-around with lightly beaded chiffon on top
KBR Reception: Mr.S with tengkolok while Mrs.S will do buns with cucuk sanggul and jasmine
MU Reception: Mr.S make sure have haircut while Mrs. S half-tie fly away hair with flowers
Miscellaneous:
Collect, compile and finalise guest lists
Send invitation cards --[writing the addresses now!]
Finalise menu from Renaissance Hotel caterers
1 Months Before
Across-The-Board:
Confirm florists and decorations --[OWP to coordinate and finalise]
Confirm henna --[deposit paid to Cama Henna Couture, balance MYR190 after event]
Confirm photography [Full Payment to Userun Photography, Balance MYR 600? to FMelot Photography]
Confirm videographer
Confirm accommodations for in-laws and close friends
Confirm entertainment --Gamelan set --[GranMama to get done]
Choose song lists
Fittings:
Solemnization: Check with Siti Nor Boutique
KBR Reception: Check with Ratu Brides House ---waiting to pick up the attires
MU Reception: Mr.S to check with his bestie for a tuxedo and Mrs.S to do final fitting with Nik Erwan Roseli
Memories & Moments:
Pre-Wedding: FMelot Photography --[Location: Maple, Sentul West (at home only)]
Solemnization: FMelot Photography & Userun Photography
Slides and Video: FMelot Photography
Videography: En. Saidina
Reception KBR: Userun Photography
Post-Wedding KBR: Userun Photography
Reception MUR: To Be Confirmed
2 Weeks Before
Run-Of-The-Mill:
Follow up with guests RSVP
Arrange and finalise seating plans
Confirm table numbers with Renaissance Hotel caterers
Rehearsal
