I think living in this fast paced oh-so-busy-like-a-bee world we tend to think like it is easy and ended with taking things or those in our lives for granted. For an instance, how many of you still take the time to smell the fresh morning dew or how nice the grass smell after a pouring rain? How many of you still look up to the bright blue sky, free your mind and draw sketches of cloud bunnies? Well there you go! You have your answer. NO. I remembered I have always love the smell of the fresh grass after the rain and the smell of waves crashing along the coastline. Aahhh heaven!
I was clicking and reading some of the old post on facebook and stumbled upon this article. I am feeling a little bit mushy today so I decided to re-post this here. Initial post was written by a man. May Allah PBUH bless his marriage life for reminding other men to be what they are supposed to be.
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LOVE HER ... when she sips on your coffee or tea. She only wants to make sure it tastes just right for you.
LOVE HER ... when she "pushes" you to pray. She wants to be with you in Jannah.
LOVE HER ... when she asks you to play with the kids. She did not "make" them on her own.
LOVE HER ...when she is jealous. Out of all the men she can have, she chose you.
LOVE HER ... when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts, you have them too.
LOVE HER ... when her cooking is bad. She tries.
LOVE HER ... when she looks dishevelled in the morning. She always grooms herself up again.
LOVE HER ... when she asks to help with the kids' homework. She only wants you to be part of the home.
LOVE HER ... when she asks if she looks fat. Your opinion counts, so tell her she is beautiful.
LOVE HER ... when she looks beautiful. She is yours so appreciate her.
LOVE HER ... when she spends hours to get ready. She only wants to look her best for you.
LOVE HER ... when she buys you gifts and you don't like it. Smile and tell her it is what you have always wanted.
LOVE HER ... when she has developed a bad habit. You have many more and with wisdom and politeness you have all the time in the world to help her change.
LOVE HER ... when she cries for absolutely nothing. Don't ask but tell her that it is going to be okay.
LOVE HER ... when she suffers from PMS. Buy her chocolate, rub her feet and back and just talk to her.
LOVE HER ... when whatever you do is not pleasing. It happens and will pass.
LOVE HER ... when she stains your clothes. You needed a new shirt anyway.
LOVE HER ... when she tells you how to drive. She only wants you to be safe.
LOVE HER ... when she argues. She only wants to make thing right for both of you.
LOVE HER ... she is YOURS!
You don't need any other special reason!
All this forms part of a woman's character. Women are part of your life and should be treated as the Queen.
The Messenger of Allah PBUH advised concerning women:
Treat HAWA (women) well.
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HAPPY WEEK END Y'ALL!
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